If you have been stuck in a relationship for a while now and your boyfriend has not added you back into his life after the break-up then you will have to work on your communication skills. Here is what you will need to do to encourage your boyfriend to add you back in his life.
Eliminate your insecuritiesThe very first thing that you need to do is take a good hard look at yourself. If you are a insecure person who has a huge ego then you will have to work extremely hard on changing the way you think. Tell your boyfriend that you want him back to spend time with you.
Tell him you would have never left himThe very next thing that you need to say to your man is that you would have never left him. The very fact that you have made this confession to him will persuade him to add you back into his life. Men hate clingy women who hang on to them.
Greet him when you meet himWith your man greeting you when you meet him in your usual way, it will show him that you have accepted the breakup and are OK with it. This will remove all the anger and frustration in you and you will act normal.
Make him see that you can go out and have a good timeYou need to once again convince your boyfriend that you can go out and have a good time even after you have broken up. Once he sees that you can go out and have a good time with friends and his friends, he will be convinced that it was a good idea to go on a break up.
Start taking control of your lifeOnce your man sees that you are taking control of your life and making plans of action instead of making desperate attempts to fix your relationship, he too will start to change his attitude. Go out of your way to crosshairs and make your boyfriend see that you can be friends with him without being a part of his life. It won’t be long and he will be adding you back in.
Be the anchor of his lifeIf your boyfriend has already During done a big crisis by taking his girlfriend for granted then its time you all went quiet for a while to lick your wounds. During this time you have to prove to him that you have taken control of your life as well and that you are perfectly OK.
Make new friends to create a stronger social lifeGenerally hang out with other people and make new friends. You have to show your man that you are a very sociable person. He will notice that you are open to new friends and will be convinced that he made the right decision while you are out.
Remember earlier… if he had been asking for space earlier your efforts could have workedNow that you have joined the social driven life in the forefront stage your boyfriend will be looking for the reason behind your sudden about face. Show your boyfriend that you are over him by going on drinks with his friends and showing that you don’t need him to hang out. This will reverse the emotional pyrological order and he will want to talk to you.
Hint that you are free in futureSo your boyfriend will not open up to you while the relationship is going through the worst phase, take this opportunity to let him know that you too have started to realize that he was worth the time and that you have started considering the idea of retaining the relationship and even revive it.